I think we rush all forms of grief. All forms of discomfort. People don’t want to see them and I feel the blame lands on the person, who is just having perfectly human feelings!
I agree with you Ness for sure. We tend to rush all forms of grief to escape the discomfort because we just don’t want to feel so crappy anymore. It’s hard to sit with those feelings of discomfort, or indeed sit with the discomfort we feel from others who believe we should be ‘moving forward’ by now because they do not like sitting with their discomfort of seeing us in pain. It’s a never ending circle it would seem 🤔 Thanks for your considered thoughts Ness 💜
I always appreciate your wise and considered comments. Thank you 😘
I think people’s loss and reactions and responses are uniquely individual in their depths.
I also believe the loss of identity, career or of one’s feelings of displacement in this world can also be described as heart wrenching losses.
The connection and attachments we have to our losses do vary in degree but are individually immeasurable none-the-less. Yes, immeasurable discomfort for sure.
Regret is definitely a form of grieving too in my book.
You always share so beautifully of your life and continue to break the silence on so many levels of what it feels like to live life in all its forms. Career, love, family, illness the whole lot. And I and many others appreciate you 😘💜
I think we rush all forms of grief. All forms of discomfort. People don’t want to see them and I feel the blame lands on the person, who is just having perfectly human feelings!
I agree with you Ness for sure. We tend to rush all forms of grief to escape the discomfort because we just don’t want to feel so crappy anymore. It’s hard to sit with those feelings of discomfort, or indeed sit with the discomfort we feel from others who believe we should be ‘moving forward’ by now because they do not like sitting with their discomfort of seeing us in pain. It’s a never ending circle it would seem 🤔 Thanks for your considered thoughts Ness 💜
Dear Denyse,
I always appreciate your wise and considered comments. Thank you 😘
I think people’s loss and reactions and responses are uniquely individual in their depths.
I also believe the loss of identity, career or of one’s feelings of displacement in this world can also be described as heart wrenching losses.
The connection and attachments we have to our losses do vary in degree but are individually immeasurable none-the-less. Yes, immeasurable discomfort for sure.
Regret is definitely a form of grieving too in my book.
You always share so beautifully of your life and continue to break the silence on so many levels of what it feels like to live life in all its forms. Career, love, family, illness the whole lot. And I and many others appreciate you 😘💜